I wish I could say that the wedding went off without a hitch, but that would be a lie. And why write if I am going to lie about what happens in my life. My friends and family were all there and most of the stress ended the day of the wedding the way it should. Unfortunately, there was some drama. I can't really go into details because I don't know the cause of the drama that occurred. All I know is that my mother-in-law at one point during the reception started to cry and threatened to leave. Then my husband and his brother almost got into a fist fight. My mom and dad went outside to smooth things over with my mother-in-law and my husband's best friend worked on Juan and his brother. All of this caused me to have a bit of a breakdown. But it all worked out the night of the wedding and we had a nice rest of the night.
But somehow, even though things seemed worked out at the end of the wedding, we left California with even more tension between us and my husband's family. Again, I have no idea what happened or what I may have done wrong, but they are not speaking to me and the words that have been said are not nice ones.
I talked to a friend today about it and she reminded me to pray first and let God lead me where He will in this situation. So I did and the answer I am getting right now is that I have just gotten married, moved across the country, and have so much other stuff going on, all I can think about right now is that. I will focus on my new marriage and my new life and in time everything else will be worked out in God's time.
So other than the negative, the wedding was wonderful. We had a great time and have some beautiful photos to prove it. Now it's time to return to the grind. I have to find a job, learn my lines and songs for the show I am in, and get my home in order. Everything else is in God's hands.
